Uncommon Curiosity

For a few years, I was part of the crew who helped Rori put together her Top Sex Bloggers List.   It’s something that I really believed in because she generously brought attention to a lot of bloggers who deserved it and helped all of us connect with our rather disjointed community.  I also believed in it because she didn’t discriminate on the basis of identity or orientation – if you were talking about sex, she wanted to hear – and read – all about it.  We were all together in one big perverted family.

That is, until last year, when one of the top spots was given to a blogger who turned out to be someone other than who they said they were.  The whole thing was a surprise to a lot of folks, including Rori, and a firestorm of accusation and anger erupted.  I, honestly, am way too much a nobody to understand what really happened, except that a lot of people got really angry and accusatory, and I lost a lot of respect for some of them.  I figured that the list was finished, and assumed Rori would move on and away from the detractors that had tried to rip her a new one.

So it was with great surprise that I saw that she had decided to compile her own list this year, and that Kyle and I were both on it.  I haven’t been all that sexy for awhile now (a bit of that was on purpose, and some not – it turns out the bright lights where the cool kids are are a bit too much for me,) and I didn’t even make the list last year, but this year I’m right there at #55.  WOW!  Kyle is up at #18, which is really awesome (although he deserves to be #1, imnsho.)  Rori even included Twitter tags for most everyone to make it easier to find us all.

Big thanks to Rori for doing this, and for including me.  It really is a wonderful resource, and a great way to discover new blogs.

Top 100 Sex Bloggers of 2011

1. Guy New York (@quickiesnewyork) and The Dirty Gentleman from Quickies in New York
2. Charlotte Times (@charlotte_times) from The Life and Charlotte Times
3. Kendra Holliday (@TBK365 and @beautifulkind) from The Beautiful Kind
4. Amie Wee (@crevicecanyon) from Crevice Canyon
5. Riff Dog from Ashley and Me
6. Catherine Toyooka (@Catcoaches) from Sex Spoken Here: Secrets of a Sexuality Educator
7. Vineyard Road (@vineyardroad) from Vineyard Road
8. David (@DavidinVegas) from A View from the Top
9. Quizzical Pussy (@quizzicalpussy) from Quizzical Pussy
10. Athol Kay from Married Man Sex Life
11. Dick and Jane from Dick-n-Jane
12. EA (@easilyaroused) from Easily Aroused
13. Axe (@unspeakableaxe) from Unspeakable Axe
14. Joan Price (@JoanPrice) from Naked at Our Age – Better Than I Ever Expected
15. Oatmeal Girl (@oatmeal_girl) from Submission & Metaphor
16. Dark Gracie (@darkgracie) from Dark Gracie
17. Mistress Lilyana (@MistressLilyana) from Mistress Lilyana
18. Kyle Jones (@butchtastickyle) from Butchtastic
19. Cheeky Minx (@LoveHateSexCake) from Love Hate Sex Cake
20. Adam from The Mind of a Married Man
21. Dr. Marty Klein (@drmartyklein) from Sexual Intelligence
22. Lady Pandorah (@ladypandorah) from Lady Pandorah’s Sanctuary
23. Holly (@pervocracy) from The Pervocracy
24. Brooke from Puppy Tales
25. Lady Dragonfly (@miladydragonfly) from Lady Dragonfly
26. nilla (@swirlednilla) from Vanillamom’s Blog
27. Wilhelmina Wang (@wilhelminawang) from Heartbreak Nymphomania
28. Holden (@packingvocals) from Packing Vocals
29. 25 Things from 25 Things About My Sexuality
30. Thumper (@thumperMN) from Denying Thumber
31. Kake (@poeticerotica) from Poetic Erotica
32. Lucas (@top2bottom) from Top to Bottom
33. Ms. Diane D from Bi and Large – Cuckolding with a Twist
34. Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross (@dodsonandross) from Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross – Sex Information Online
35. Kat (@shackledkat) from Prowling with Kat
36. The Gentle Nibbles Writing Team (@gentlenibbles) from Gentle Nibbles
37. Pandora (@pandorablake) from Spanked, Not Silenced
38. Molly (@mollysdailykiss) from Molly’s Daily Kiss
39. Vixen from Secrets of a Blue-Eyed Vixen
40. DDD from Dick Dyke Dick
41. Jade (@piecesofjade) from Pieces of Jade
42. Jiz Lee (@jizlee) from Jiz Lee
43. Sin from Finding My Submission
44. Kris from The Phone Courtesan
45. SapioSlut from SapioSlut
46. Rockin’ (@RockinwithaCock) from Light Switch
47. Rachael (@rabbitwhite) from Rachel Rabbit White
48. Neo Dom Tom from A Bedroom Dom
49. Daisy Danger (@daisydanger) from The True Life Sex Adventures of Daisy Danger
50. Violet & Rye (@UCAppetites) from Uncommon Appetites
51. Kaya from Under His Hand
52. Lilith (@lilith9465) from Lilith Land
53. Lady Grinning Soul (@LadyGrinSoul) from Lady Grinning Soul
54. Septimus from Dirty Art by Septimus
55. Roxy (@sroxy) from Uncommon Curiosity
56. Anakin (@AnakinDarth) and Padme (@padmeamidala) from Journey to the Darkside
57. Dr. Charlie Glickman (@charlieglickman) from Adult Sexuality Education
58. Lily from theblackleatherbelt
59. Arabella (@askarabella) from Bombshells & Rockstars
60. SN from Peel It Off!
61. Bre from Owned, Collared, Loved
62. Adriana Ravenlust from Of Sex and Love
63. Delilah (@definingdelilah) from Defining Delilah
64. Arthur and Annabelle (@lustandconfused) from Lust and Confused
65. Lorelei (@suggestive) from Suggestive Tongue
66. Kitty Stryker from PurrVersatility
67. Mollena (@Mollena) from The Perverted Negress
68. Naughty Lexi from Exploits of Lexi
69. Karen Blue (@kissinbluekaren) from Kissing Blue Karen
70. Arti (@ArtiAbsinthium) from Absinthe Cocktail
71. Figleaf (@talkingfigleaf) from Real Adult Sex
72. Miranda and Aarron from The Swingers Attic
73. Blacksilk (@BlacksilkBlog) from Blacksilk’s Boudoir
74. Violet (@violetscreaming) from Screaming Violet
75. Ferns (@Ferns__) from Domme Chronicles
76. SlipperyWhnWhet (@SlipperyWhnWhet) from A Slut’s Memoir
77. Fruit Taster (@fruittaster) from Fruits of Libido
78. Mrs. Discontented (@DiscontentedMrs) from Mrs. Discontented
79. Aisha from Being Aisha
80. Ruby Ryder from Pegging Paradise
81. Chrystal Bougon from Better Sex Radio
82. Lipstick Lori (@lipsticklori) from Rarely Wears Lipstick
83. CarrieAnn (@CarrieAnn_) from A View from the Floor
84. Dangerous Lilly (@dangerouslilly) from This Could Be Dangerous
85. Electronic Doll (@electronic_doll) from Post Modern Sleaze
86. Jerome from Let’s Talk About Sex
87. Dusk (@dusk_in_chains) from Dusk (in chains)
88. Innocent Loverboy (@innocentlb) from Innocent Loverboy
89. RHS from The Redheaded Slut
90. Violet Blue (@violetblue) from Tiny Nibbles
91. Amy (@AnalAmy) from Anal Amy
92. Curvaceous Dee (@curvaceousdee) from Curvaceous Dee
93. Jason Stotts (@Jstotts) from Erosophia
94. Mistress Kay (@mistress_kay) from Kinky World
95. Viemoira from Cavern of the Beast
96. Lucid (@lucidobsession) from Lucid Obsession
97. ♀ & sss (@sweatshopsissy) from Sweat Shop Sissy
98. Kat from She Makes the Rules
99. Yummy from Sexual Adventures of a Married Woman
100. YOU! – As always, I want to leave a place on this list for ALL the awesome sex bloggers out there! So please leave a comment on Between My Sheetswith your name/URL to tell us about your sexy blog!