When I first discovered BDSM resources online, I stumbled onto very formal versions of D/s without knowing it. Negotiation looked like a ballet performed to music I couldn’t hear to accompany words I didn’t understand. The whole thing seemed way beyond me, and like nothing I’d ever be able to do, let alone want to [...]
Posts Tagged ‘Daddy Wendell’
Negotiation – Not Nearly as Awkward as Having a Breakdown in Public
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, BPH, Daddy Wendell, Educating Roxy, Kyle on March 3, 2010 | 16 Comments »
Literati
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, Books, Daddy Wendell, groupie, Shon Richards on February 21, 2010 | 2 Comments »
My mind is full of books today. First, I’ve been reading over the draft of a book on leather gear by a dear friend of mine. It’s really well-written and I can’t wait to pimp it to all of you – the pictures alone are worth it, and his instructions put building leather gear easily [...]
Voyeur
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, Becoming Roxy, BPH, Daddy Wendell, Jolie, Pictures, Real life on January 4, 2010 | 4 Comments »
After Daddy Wendell and Jolie had set various parts of me on fire, we cleaned up the kitchen and moved into the living room. They generously agreed to allow me to take pictures of their scene together, and so I sat quietly on a couch in the corner, trying with all my strength not to [...]
On what?!!
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, BPH, Daddy Wendell, Fear, Fire, Jolie, Pictures, Real life on December 22, 2009 | 8 Comments »
And so, after months of lively email exchanges, I headed up to San Francisco on Saturday night to meet Daddy Wendell for my first fire scene. He and his partner were staying at the Big Pink House, a really cool household of kink-minded folks, and I arrived in time to sit in on the second [...]
Protected: Fire
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, Daddy Wendell, Pictures on December 20, 2009 | Enter your password to view comments.
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Burning Curiosity
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, Becoming Roxy, Daddy Wendell, Fear on December 19, 2009 | 2 Comments »
Tonight I’m going to go to a play party for the express purpose of asking a man to introduce me to fire play by setting fire to alcohol that’s been rubbed across my skin. I’m a teensy bit nervous. Now, there are a dozen reasons to be nervous – I won’t really know anyone there [...]
Quality Control
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, Daddy Wendell, Folsom, Pictures on October 4, 2009 | 1 Comment »
When I wrote about going to the leather class last week, I left out one small detail – the cuffs they gave me to assemble as homework weren’t punched completely, and I could only put together one of them completely. So one of my stops at Folsom was to see Daddy Wendell and ask for [...]
Leather Lessons
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, Becoming Roxy, Daddy Wendell, Educating Roxy, Pictures on September 26, 2009 | 7 Comments »
Last night, I had the opportunity to take a leather-working class with Daddy Wendell, the Northwest LeatherSir from 2006 and Seattle Leather Daddy 2003. He’s spent the past few years deconstructing leather gear and perfecting his technique, and now he teaches classes (and is writing a book) on how to build your own gear with [...]
