A few weekends ago I went to the Dyke March in San Francisco and found myself reacting very strongly to something that happened there. Before the march, while we were all gathering in the park, singers were performing on stage and the rest of us were all sitting together on the grass, enjoying the music [...]
Posts Tagged ‘Educating Roxy’
Privilege, Tolerance and the Struggle to Belong
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged Becoming Roxy, Butch Voices, Dyke March, Educating Roxy, Kyle, Real life, The Desire to Belong, Truth on July 9, 2010 | 4 Comments »
Negotiation – Not Nearly as Awkward as Having a Breakdown in Public
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, BPH, Daddy Wendell, Educating Roxy, Kyle on March 3, 2010 | 16 Comments »
When I first discovered BDSM resources online, I stumbled onto very formal versions of D/s without knowing it. Negotiation looked like a ballet performed to music I couldn’t hear to accompany words I didn’t understand. The whole thing seemed way beyond me, and like nothing I’d ever be able to do, let alone want to [...]
Necessary Tenderness
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged Arron, BDSM, Eclipse, Educating Roxy, Kyle, Max, poly on March 2, 2010 | 6 Comments »
I started playing with my ex, Max, 3 years ago this month. With everything that’s happened since then, it seems like so much longer, because I’ve learned, and changed, so much. Back then, I had never played with anyone, and I didn’t know about places like fetlife and alt.com, and so I didn’t have anyone [...]
Friday Fiction – Soccer Coach
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged Educating Roxy, Fiction, Flirting, Kissing girls, Kyle, smut on October 30, 2009 | 1 Comment »
Kyle and I wrote a scene together yesterday that was so hot, I suggested we post it for y’all to see. It started with a picture I sent him of myself as a young soccer player, and we fantasized about a meeting when I was a sweet young thing of 18, and what he might [...]
Despite the Fear
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged Butch Voices, Educating Roxy, Fear, Kyle, Real life, Secrets, Truth on October 6, 2009 | 4 Comments »
G, who writes one of my favorite sites, “can i help you, sir?”, recently posted this piece on being free from fear, which got me thinking. The list of things that everyone would do if fear were not an issue inspired another list in my head – the things I do despite sometimes mind-crushing fear. [...]
Leather Lessons
Posted in Other Stuff, tagged BDSM, Becoming Roxy, Daddy Wendell, Educating Roxy, Pictures on September 26, 2009 | 7 Comments »
Last night, I had the opportunity to take a leather-working class with Daddy Wendell, the Northwest LeatherSir from 2006 and Seattle Leather Daddy 2003. He’s spent the past few years deconstructing leather gear and perfecting his technique, and now he teaches classes (and is writing a book) on how to build your own gear with [...]
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