I started playing with my ex, Max, 3 years ago this month. With everything that’s happened since then, it seems like so much longer, because I’ve learned, and changed, so much. Back then, I had never played with anyone, and I didn’t know about places like fetlife and alt.com, and so I didn’t have anyone [...]
Posts Tagged ‘poly’
Necessary Tenderness
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Arron, BDSM, Eclipse, Educating Roxy, Kyle, Max, poly on March 2, 2010 | 6 Comments »
The Scarlet Letter
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Becoming Roxy, Fear, Kyle, Loneliness, love, poly, Sadness, Secrets, Truth on November 2, 2009 | 2 Comments »
A can stand for a lot of things.
I have readers who believe it stands for adultery, and I’ll not argue the fact. Over 2 and a half years, I’ve run away from my life into the arms, and dungeons, of seven lovers who have offered me a place to hide…a way to distract myself…and, finally, [...]
Yes Again
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Becoming Roxy, Bois, Kissing girls, Kyle, Pictures, Poetry, poly, Real life, Truth on October 11, 2009 | 3 Comments »
In honor of National Coming Out Day, I’d like to re-post one of my favorite poems. It came tumbling out of me after my first trip to visit Kyle – a single answer to so many questions that were swirling in my head.
And, since it is National Coming Out Day…in case it wasn’t obvious [...]
Easy Cheesy
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Loneliness, M, poly, Real life on October 7, 2009 | 4 Comments »
I recently closed a chapter in my romantic life and my feelings have been all over the board. Having more than one love in my life doesn’t insulate me from all the same feelings over a breakup that everyone else feels. When I get sad I tend to cope with humor, and so, one night [...]
Hate Mail and Beauty
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged BDSM, Becoming Roxy, groupie, jealousy, poly, Real life, Secrets, Truth on September 18, 2009 | 20 Comments »
A reader in Portland, Oregon, had this to say on Tuesday:
You’re a selfish, slutty cunt. Put your focus on your children, where it belongs, not your deviant desires. All of you poly player people are idiots. You want the cake and the frosting, without any concern for how your actions might affect others. By the [...]
Monday Rant
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Becoming Roxy, Control, jealousy, Kyle, M, Monday Rant, Nate, poly, Real life, Secrets, Truth on August 31, 2009 | 16 Comments »
…wherein I shamelessly complain about anything and everything and swear a lot. Those with delicate constitutions would be advised to go check out today’s LOLCatz or something of a similarly inoffensive nature.
1) The man who hired me 14 years ago, a wonderful, beautiful man, passed away this week after a lingering illness. Not only did [...]
Introductions
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged Bois, Kyle, love, M, Nate, poly on August 28, 2009 | 6 Comments »
I have to admit that I felt a bit of trepidation about attending Butch Voices last week, and a significant part of it came from a less-than-noble place in my gut. Surrounded by so many handsome guys, I worried that I might lose my interest in my loves at home. Of course, we all know [...]
Two Things
Posted in Uncategorized, tagged jealousy, Kyle, love, poly on August 11, 2009 | 8 Comments »
hyp·o·crite, noun (Middle English ypocrite, from Anglo-French, from Late Latin hypocrita, from Greek hypokritēs actor, hypocrite, from hypokrinesthai Date: 13th century)
1 : a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion
2 : a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings
I’ll come out and say it – [...]