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I started playing with my ex, Max, 3 years ago this month.  With everything that’s happened since then, it seems like so much longer, because I’ve learned, and changed, so much.  Back then, I had never played with anyone, and I didn’t know about places like fetlife and alt.com, and so I didn’t have anyone [...]

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A can stand for a lot of things.
I have readers who believe it stands for adultery, and I’ll not argue the fact.  Over 2 and a half years, I’ve run away from my life into the arms, and dungeons, of seven lovers who have offered me a place to hide…a way to distract myself…and, finally, [...]

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In honor of National Coming Out Day, I’d like to re-post one of my favorite poems. It came tumbling out of me after my first trip to visit Kyle – a single answer to so many questions that were swirling in my head.
And, since it is National Coming Out Day…in case it wasn’t obvious [...]

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Easy Cheesy

I recently closed a chapter in my romantic life and my feelings have been all over the board.  Having more than one love in my life doesn’t insulate me from all the same feelings over a breakup that everyone else feels.  When I get sad I tend to cope with humor, and so, one night [...]

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A reader in Portland, Oregon, had this to say on Tuesday:
You’re a selfish, slutty cunt. Put your focus on your children, where it belongs, not your deviant desires. All of you poly player people are idiots. You want the cake and the frosting, without any concern for how your actions might affect others. By the [...]

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…wherein I shamelessly complain about anything and everything and swear a lot.   Those with delicate constitutions would be advised to go check out today’s LOLCatz or something of a similarly inoffensive nature.
1)  The man who hired me 14 years ago, a wonderful, beautiful man, passed away this week after a lingering illness.  Not only did [...]

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Introductions

I have to admit that I felt a bit of trepidation about attending Butch Voices last week, and a significant part of it came from a less-than-noble place in my gut.  Surrounded by so many handsome guys, I worried that I might lose my interest in my loves at home.  Of course, we all know [...]

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Two Things

hyp·o·crite, noun  (Middle English ypocrite, from Anglo-French, from Late Latin hypocrita, from Greek hypokritēs actor, hypocrite, from hypokrinesthai  Date: 13th century)
1 : a person who puts on a false appearance of virtue or religion
2 : a person who acts in contradiction to his or her stated beliefs or feelings
I’ll come out and say it – [...]

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